ZH:direct Connection problems

[Guest VViCKiD_WeeD]

hey guys...

i am having some major problems with direct connect problems...

 

i am tryin to connect with my friend...

his computer is dial-up (56 K)..

we have successfully played LAN together.

 

my computer is on DMZ...i have a d-link router..

 

When i host, I will see my friend in the lobby(the place where u select ur civilisation (USA and stuff))... I can type but he can not see wat i have typed... He can type as well, but i cannot see it too... then after a period (like 1 minute) he will exit and i will see the message "SPY dropped: Player was not responding"..

We had turned off zone alarm and stuff

 

can anyone help us please ?