Tiberian sun Lan problems

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Hello again, This time my cousin and I are trying to play on lan together. I have had this problem before but somehow bypassed it. I downloaded a lan patch called wsock32.DLL it works for the most part but here is the details. As soon as i join the lobby I can see my cousin, I start a game he can see my name in the lobby for a good 30 seconds. then my name will disapear while im in the game creation lobby and my game does not show up for him. The same happens for me if he hosts a lobby. Does anyone have a solution for this problem? If more details are needed Ill try to give more