Azrael 0 Posted May 25, 2007 Okay... Um... I don't know how to start... Okay... It's about this girl... Let's call her Bem... I kind of like her, yet I don't know if I love her... We kind of hooked up since she's a close friend of my classmate... The day after our first encounter, I broke up with my girlfriend for her... We kept on getting to know each other in the following days... Then one day my classmate kind of became the bridge... Bem asked me what I really felt, I told her I don't know... She told me she loved me, though I don't really believe it... But I kind of want to believe it... Ever since that day, I keep on thinking about her, yet I still doubt if I truly am in love with her... I can't even ****ing play C&C3 or any game properly since my mind strays from the game... My question is: Do you guys think this feeling is, really, love? Share this post Link to post
Saracen 16 Posted May 25, 2007 Another woman on the side, damn your track record is worse than mine. Want my honest opinion? Love is overrated, I can't remember how old you are, but for god's sake, you shouldn't be concerned with that crap for a while yet. Take her to see the new Pirates of the Caribbean movie, then afterwards show her what the real jolly roger is all about. Nice n' simple. That's all you should be worried about. Share this post Link to post
Tree 0 Posted May 26, 2007 If she loves you, then you love her. Then you get some, and move on. Feelings are just not important these days. Share this post Link to post
TheBlackOut 7 Posted May 26, 2007 Post Edited by Admin - Offensive comments removed This is covered in the forum rules. Share this post Link to post
Doctor Destiny 41 Posted May 26, 2007 Post Edited by Admin - Offensive comments removed This is covered in the forum rules. Always the best solution. Share this post Link to post
Wildshield 0 Posted May 27, 2007 Flow with the relationship. Take what you have and have fun. Stay by her side until she gets bored and finds someone else that she thinks she "loves". Tell her you love her, even if at this time you dont know if this is true. If later you don't think so... move on. If she's any one of those girls who has been scorned in the past, she is very unlikely to stay in a relationship longer than a year. Don't let a relationship and a friendship get in the way. Because you'll see what you were with everyday afterwards. Stop with the "what if" stuff. Take a stand and make a choice. Because if you ever have regrets later in life... they will haunt you forever. Share this post Link to post
Azrael 0 Posted June 11, 2007 Thanks... And I'm not after her, well, you know what I mean... And anyway... I think I really love her, but I don't think that she truly meant what she said... I mean, for over a week there was no communication between us... Yet I still can't get over her... Share this post Link to post